tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3142464886632590655.post2760032933496480169..comments2024-02-16T02:49:39.157-08:00Comments on busybusybeejay: My son in law has a brain tumour.busybusybeejayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04570020362062932692noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3142464886632590655.post-85528957906957863102019-10-14T14:13:03.110-07:002019-10-14T14:13:03.110-07:00What a difficult situation. I do feel that it migh...What a difficult situation. I do feel that it might not be the wisest move for you to change your lives.....speaking as another ,um, older person! Could the family access extra help from an agency or advice from a Charity such as Macmillan Cancer relief? <br />Lots of discussion needed I guess.Elizabethdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02405703727112759947noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3142464886632590655.post-20608922193702449922019-09-29T04:17:29.686-07:002019-09-29T04:17:29.686-07:00Oh my goodness, such a difficult time for you all....Oh my goodness, such a difficult time for you all. Perhaps your son in law's work will help out if they know the situation of him being unable to drive, or is there any work he could do from home whilst he's convalescing? It will be stressful enough for you all with the operation without having to sort out all the practicalities for the six months afterwards. I do hope you manage to sort Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17436932004631816039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3142464886632590655.post-10522369206508771652019-09-28T11:22:52.354-07:002019-09-28T11:22:52.354-07:00Wow, so sorry to hear this. That's a tough si...Wow, so sorry to hear this. That's a tough situation. I agree with the poster who said perhaps the everyone needs to sit down and talk (the adults first). The kids perhaps do need to make a few adjustments about where they go or how often. Perhaps car pooling with friends who are going to the same activities would help out the family? Renting there for that period of time will completelySandyhttps://4ccccs.blogspot.com/2019/09/shawls-and-photo-bombs.htmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3142464886632590655.post-77151823799383275752019-09-27T10:31:43.246-07:002019-09-27T10:31:43.246-07:00I am so sorry to hear this horrible news. I would...I am so sorry to hear this horrible news. I would be right there with you deciding to rent a place and help out. It will make it easier on them and you won't feel as stressed being far away. Good luck with all your decisions.Mereknitshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04596140300034854370noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3142464886632590655.post-59750876482403619612019-09-25T08:53:51.753-07:002019-09-25T08:53:51.753-07:00Is there any chance they can find room to put you ...Is there any chance they can find room to put you up in their house while you help out? That would also free up some of your money to help them financially. Unahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03398380737025120541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3142464886632590655.post-85992565099492392872019-09-25T07:16:03.202-07:002019-09-25T07:16:03.202-07:00Such sad news. I wish him well in the coming month...Such sad news. I wish him well in the coming months.<br />So many people to consider here, including you and your hubby. Things are so much harder as we age. We plan for our own health issues never really expecting that our energy will perhaps be required for our grown children, even grandchildren. I hope there are others in your family who will also help out.<br /><br />My thoughts and prayers Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11915239653283205065noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3142464886632590655.post-88736634858089124032019-09-25T06:53:36.419-07:002019-09-25T06:53:36.419-07:00A difficult time for sure. Our health is so very ...A difficult time for sure. Our health is so very important. No doubt you will work out what needs to be done. Sending healing vibes and wishes for strength for all. Tammy@T's Daily Treasureshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01474928708908027789noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3142464886632590655.post-68408518535168049042019-09-25T00:50:49.243-07:002019-09-25T00:50:49.243-07:00Oh dear, I'm so sorry to read this. It's a...Oh dear, I'm so sorry to read this. It's a difficult time for everyone, I'm sure you will work out a routine between you all but do take care of yourselves too. Best wishes.Rosiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04733563829902335223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3142464886632590655.post-24315639619535792572019-09-24T20:25:53.398-07:002019-09-24T20:25:53.398-07:00I'm so sorry to read this and am thinking of y...I'm so sorry to read this and am thinking of you as you handle this and make decisions. Much love. xxJoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16116524003944939298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3142464886632590655.post-42154479674533265332019-09-24T13:03:10.299-07:002019-09-24T13:03:10.299-07:00Awful. Perhaps all sit round and discuss do the k...Awful. Perhaps all sit round and discuss do the kids really need to go here there and everywhere? etc. Who needs what. Nightmare. But an open discussion always helps. justjillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17253881958131548009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3142464886632590655.post-24115613919895720562019-09-24T13:01:31.261-07:002019-09-24T13:01:31.261-07:00Sorry to hear your news. Love and prayers for you ...Sorry to hear your news. Love and prayers for you all xBeaceehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13705130860177002122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3142464886632590655.post-74463633157997739172019-09-24T12:40:52.855-07:002019-09-24T12:40:52.855-07:00Life is so difficult sometimes isn't it. Just ...Life is so difficult sometimes isn't it. Just when we think the kids are grown and we have time to ourselves it is not so. All you can do is your best. Love to you both<br />Briony<br />xcrafty cat cornerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06251582085392890533noreply@blogger.com